There wasn’t a single moment where you decided to lose yourself. It didn’t happen all at once. It happened slowly. Quietly. In ways that made sense at the time. You noticed what people responded to. What made things easier. What kept the peace. What earned approval. So you adjusted. A little here. A little …
There are some dreams you forget before your feet touch the ground. And then there are the ones that follow you into the day. The ones you don’t say out loud. The ones that sit quietly in the back of your mind and wait for a moment of silence. The ones that make you pause …
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There’s a kind of exhaustion that doesn’t come from doing too much. It comes from not knowing when you’re allowed to stop. You finish one thing… and instead of feeling relief, your mind moves the line. “There’s still more.” “You could do better.” “You’re not done yet.” So you keep going. Not because someone asked …
You can see it so clearly. The pattern. The cycle. The way this is going to end. You’ve watched it before. Maybe not exactly like this… but close enough to recognize the shape of it. The same kind of hurt. The same kind of disappointment. The same kind of outcome waiting at the end. And …
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