{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"choosingme.co.ke","provider_url":"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke","author_name":"pri nasieku","author_url":"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/index.php\/author\/prinasieku\/","title":"The Violence of the Inner Voice - choosingme.co.ke","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"FZ9iF2RMnQ\"><a href=\"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/index.php\/the-violence-of-the-inner-voice\/\">The Violence of the Inner Voice<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/index.php\/the-violence-of-the-inner-voice\/embed\/#?secret=FZ9iF2RMnQ\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;The Violence of the Inner Voice&#8221; &#8212; choosingme.co.ke\" data-secret=\"FZ9iF2RMnQ\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Picsart_26-03-11_22-32-34-294.png","thumbnail_width":1150,"thumbnail_height":2044,"description":"There\u2019s a particular kind of shame that only capable people understand. It\u2019s the shame of failing when everyone believed you wouldn\u2019t. Failing while they expect more. Because when someone who is \u201cstill figuring it out\u201d fails, people nod. They say things like, \u201cKeep going.\u201d \u201cYou\u2019re learning.\u201d \u201cThat\u2019s part of the process.\u201d But when someone who &hellip;"}