{"id":2397,"date":"2025-06-30T21:23:53","date_gmt":"2025-06-30T21:23:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/?p=2397"},"modified":"2025-06-30T21:23:54","modified_gmt":"2025-06-30T21:23:54","slug":"still-standing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/index.php\/still-standing\/","title":{"rendered":"Still Standing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There\u2019s a strange kind of exhaustion that doesn\u2019t show on your face.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not loud. It doesn\u2019t cry in public.<\/p>\n<p>It just sits there \u2014 quietly \u2014 in your chest. Heavy.<\/p>\n<p>Like you\u2019re breathing through wet cotton.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re not falling apart exactly.<\/p>\n<p>But you\u2019re not okay either.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re just\u2026 still standing.<\/p>\n<p>Barely.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, that\u2019s what survival looks like.<\/p>\n<p>Not thriving. Not conquering. Not even hoping.<\/p>\n<p>Just getting through one more day without sinking.<\/p>\n<p>You might have days where you\u2019re too tired to hope,<\/p>\n<p>too disappointed to pray out loud,<\/p>\n<p>too emotionally drained to even scroll social media without flinching.<\/p>\n<p>Everything feels loud.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone feels far.<\/p>\n<p>And yet\u2026<\/p>\n<p>somehow\u2026<\/p>\n<p>you\u2019re still here.<\/p>\n<p>Still showing up.<\/p>\n<p>Still brushing your teeth.<\/p>\n<p>Still making uncomfortable peace with unfinished prayers.<\/p>\n<p>Still carrying dreams that feel too fragile to say out loud.<\/p>\n<p>Still loving people who don\u2019t always notice when you shrink.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no medal for this.<\/p>\n<p>No applause for the quiet work of holding yourself together.<\/p>\n<p>But God, it takes everything sometimes, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<p>And if this is you<\/p>\n<p>if you\u2019ve been walking through June with a full heart and an empty tank,<\/p>\n<p>if you\u2019ve been asking for just one thing to finally break through,<\/p>\n<p>if you\u2019ve been tired of the waiting and the hoping and the repeating\u2026<\/p>\n<p>I hope you know this:<\/p>\n<p>You are not weak for being worn out.<\/p>\n<p>You are not failing just because it\u2019s been slow.<\/p>\n<p>You are not alone just because no one sees how hard it\u2019s been.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes life brings us back to ourselves<\/p>\n<p>through silence.<\/p>\n<p>through stillness.<\/p>\n<p>through small sacred visits that remind us we are not as lost as we feel.<\/p>\n<p>And sometimes, the breakthrough doesn\u2019t come loud.<\/p>\n<p>It comes in the form of a breath you didn\u2019t realize you were holding.<\/p>\n<p>Or a heaviness that starts to lift.<\/p>\n<p>Or the simple fact that you&#8217;re no longer afraid to go back\u2026<\/p>\n<p>because this time, you\u2019re going back different.<\/p>\n<p>Still tired.<\/p>\n<p>Still waiting.<\/p>\n<p>But stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Wiser.<\/p>\n<p>More grounded.<\/p>\n<p>Still standing.<\/p>\n<p>And honestly? 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