{"id":2404,"date":"2025-07-12T19:05:54","date_gmt":"2025-07-12T19:05:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/?p=2404"},"modified":"2025-07-12T19:05:55","modified_gmt":"2025-07-12T19:05:55","slug":"to-be-human","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/choosingme.co.ke\/index.php\/to-be-human\/","title":{"rendered":"To Be Human"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>To be human is to ache and to long.<br \/>\nIt is to carry contradictions: strength and softness, faith and doubt, brilliance and brokenness \u2014 sometimes all at once.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s waking up hopeful, and by evening, questioning everything.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s loving people who may never love us the same way back.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s fighting for dreams we sometimes don\u2019t believe we deserve.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s messing up, apologizing (or not), and trying again.<\/p>\n<p>To be human is to need \u2014 not just food or water \u2014 but meaning, belonging, connection.<br \/>\nTo be held. To be known. To be seen in all our rawness and still not be left.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s laughing inappropriately at funerals and crying in the middle of supermarkets.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s finding God in unexpected places and still sometimes feeling abandoned by Him.<\/p>\n<p>Being human means we carry invisible weights no one sees, and still show up.<br \/>\nIt means we grieve people who are still alive.<br \/>\nIt means we bleed from things no one touched.<br \/>\nIt means we carry stories that don\u2019t make sense, and wounds that didn\u2019t ask for permission.<\/p>\n<p>And maybe\u2026 maybe being human is also about becoming.<br \/>\nNot just who we were born as \u2014 but who we choose to be, especially when it\u2019s hard.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s forgiving without closure.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s staying tender when life wants you to harden.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s hoping again even after disappointment.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s choosing to break cycles, even though we were raised inside them.<\/p>\n<p>To be human is weighty and wonder-filled.<br \/>\nNot perfect. 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