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Even This Deserves a Voice

It’s not loud. Not dramatic. It’s just that moment when you’re saying something and they look away. Or change the subject. Or act like you’re taking too long. And you notice. Even if you pretend not to. You feel yourself pull back. You don’t mean to. It just happens. A small part of you shuts …

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Who Even Was That?

There are moments that play back in the mind like a scene someone else acted out. A look. A comment. A tone. A decision that, at the time, felt small—but now feels sharp and out of place. Almost like it came from someone else entirely. But it didn’t. It came from a tired version of …

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When Silence Isn’t Healing

Sometimes people say they’re “keeping the peace” when really, they’re just hiding the war. They go quiet. They swallow their words. They build walls and call it love. But silence isn’t always healing. Sometimes it’s just a slow erosion. A slow burning. A slow goodbye. We tell ourselves that if we don’t talk about it, …

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The Breath Before It All Changes

Sometimes, the most unforgettable moment isn’t the explosion. It’s the silence right before it. The breath before the confession. The pause before the goodbye. The second before the truth is spoken—or swallowed. We’re so used to chasing closure. Finality. A wrapped-up ending with a label we can point to—success, failure, love, loss. But life doesn’t …

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When They Won’t Save Themselves

When They Won’t Save Themselves There’s a kind of pain that doesn’t scream. It doesn’t show up with heartbreak or betrayal or some huge loss. It’s quieter. Slower. But just as brutal. It’s the pain of watching someone you care about slowly tear themselves apart—while you stand by, helpless. They’re not clueless. They know what …

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How We Lie to Ourselves

The easiest person to lie to is yourself. It’s weird how easy it is. You don’t even have to try hard. No big performance. No convincing tone. Just… look away from the truth for a second, and boom—lie accepted. I tell myself I’m okay when I’m falling apart. I say it doesn’t matter when it …

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The Burden of Being the Strong One

People admire the strong one. They lean on them, seek their wisdom, and trust them to hold everything together. But no one ever asks who the strong one turns to when they are the ones unraveling. The strong one is the person who never falls apart in front of others. They give without expecting much …

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The Fear of Not Knowing

There’s a strange kind of panic that rises when you realize you don’t know something you should know. You’re in a conversation, and someone says something unfamiliar. Your mind races. Do I ask? Do I nod? You choose the nod, hoping they don’t notice the confusion flashing in your eyes. You’re in a new place, …

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The Price of a Mistake

It happens in a split second. A rushed decision. A wrong assumption. A word spoken too soon. And just like that, something slips—control, a chance, a number that can’t be taken back. At first, it feels small. Just a little misstep. A moment of miscalculation. But then, realization hits. And suddenly, the weight of it …

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Frustrations: The Silent Weight We Carry

There’s a peculiar sting in frustration. It’s not loud like anger or quiet like sadness; it’s somewhere in between—a simmering ache that gnaws at the edges of our hearts. Frustration is the cry of dreams unmet, the weight of expectations crumbling, and the bitter taste of falling short. As the year winds down, many of …

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