In a world that seems to measure worth by how much you do, the idea of simply sitting still – without tasks, without proving or performing – can feel foreign, even unsettling. We’re trained to keep moving, to fill every moment with something productive, as if the absence of activity is somehow a void that …
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We’ve all been there. Someone hands us a compliment—maybe it’s on our work, our kindness, the way we’ve handled a situation, or something simple like the outfit we chose that day. It’s a moment that, in theory, should feel good. But instead, there’s an odd tension. For some of us, the discomfort is so strong …
Offense is more than just a fleeting emotion; it’s a deeply personal experience that can shake you to your core. It’s that moment when someone’s words or actions slice through your defenses, leaving you exposed and vulnerable. We often dismiss it as a mere reaction, something to be shrugged off, but the truth is, offense …
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Have you ever noticed how a small inconvenience can set off a cascade of negative emotions, leading you to lash out at those around you? This week, let’s explore the depths of these emotional responses and how they can impact our relationships, even when we don’t mean to cause harm. The Trigger: A Common Scenario …
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Leadership fatigue. It’s a phrase that many leaders know all too well but rarely talk about. Being a leader often looks like a gift from the outside—a role of prestige, influence, and respect. But the reality? It’s a delicate dance of responsibilities, pressures, and expectations that can weigh heavily on those who bear the title. …
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Dear Reader, This week, I want to talk about something that hits close to home and resonates deeply with the spirit of anyone yearning for change. In the heart of Kenya, a movement is growing, fueled by the courage and determination of our youth. They are not just standing up for themselves; they are standing …
Life can often feel like a series of daunting challenges, where showing up boldly and speaking your truth can seem like an insurmountable task, especially when anxiety and fear threaten to paralyze you. Yet, it is precisely in these moments that keeping yourself in check becomes crucial. This blog is for you—to remind you that …
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Communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, but sometimes, navigating difficult conversations with loved ones can be challenging. Whether it’s addressing a disagreement, expressing hurt feelings, or resolving a misunderstanding, effective communication is essential for maintaining strong and meaningful connections. Here are some tips for improving communication with loved ones and navigating difficult …
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