We’ve all been there. Someone hands us a compliment—maybe it’s on our work, our kindness, the way we’ve handled a situation, or something simple like the outfit we chose that day. It’s a moment that, in theory, should feel good. But instead, there’s an odd tension. For some of us, the discomfort is so strong …
We’ve all been there. That place where the days blur into each other, where everything feels heavy, and moving forward seems like a distant idea. It’s the slump—the feeling of being stuck, unmotivated, and maybe even questioning what it all means. The Weight of It All Being in a slump isn’t just about feeling lazy …
There’s a moment we all face, when exhaustion becomes more than just tiredness. It’s that feeling when you’ve run dry—your tank is empty, but you keep pushing. You ignore the signs. And in that space, something starts to shift. What used to feel like passion, joy, and purpose now feels like obligation, pressure, and resentment. …
Burnout doesn’t announce itself with loud crashes. It creeps in slowly, like a fog rolling in on a clear day, until the sunlight of what once brought you joy is entirely swallowed up. One day, you’re immersed in the flow, the rhythm of what you love, and the next, the very thought of it feels …
Read more When the Flame Fades: How Burnout Turns Joy Into Resentment
We all have a mirror. Maybe it’s the one hanging on your bathroom wall, or the one you check before stepping out. But it’s not really about that mirror, is it? It’s about the mirror we carry inside—the one that reflects back a voice, a whisper, a truth, or a lie. “Mirror, mirror on the …
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Sometimes, it feels like everyone around you has a role for you to play—a mask they hand over for you to wear. Maybe it’s the friend who always lends a listening ear, the reliable one who never breaks, or the quiet shadow that stays unnoticed in a crowded room. But here’s the thing no one …
We’ve talked about how trauma can be that quiet voice in our lives, shaping who we are in ways we don’t always see. But what happens when you realize that voice isn’t truly yours? How do you find the strength to speak in your own voice, to live your own truth, when trauma has had …
Read more Finding Your True Voice: Breaking Free from Trauma’s Grip
When we think about trauma, we often picture something loud and overwhelming—a force that crashes into our lives and leaves us struggling to pick up the pieces. But what if trauma isn’t always so loud? What if it’s also a quiet voice that whispers in the background, shaping how we see ourselves and the world …
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Offense is more than just a fleeting emotion; it’s a deeply personal experience that can shake you to your core. It’s that moment when someone’s words or actions slice through your defenses, leaving you exposed and vulnerable. We often dismiss it as a mere reaction, something to be shrugged off, but the truth is, offense …
Read more The Hidden Weight of Offense: Unraveling the Intricacies of Human Pain
Have you ever noticed how a small inconvenience can set off a cascade of negative emotions, leading you to lash out at those around you? This week, let’s explore the depths of these emotional responses and how they can impact our relationships, even when we don’t mean to cause harm. The Trigger: A Common Scenario …
Read more The Hidden Struggle of Emotional Regulation: A Personal Journey