You know what you need to do. You know what’s good for you. But you don’t do it. Instead, you do the opposite. You avoid, you delay, you make excuses. You cling to old habits, even the ones that hurt you. You tell yourself you’ll change—tomorrow, next week, eventually. But the truth is, you’re not …
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There’s a kind of pain that isn’t loud. It doesn’t come from betrayal or heartbreak or loss. It’s quieter, but just as devastating—the pain of watching someone you love ruin themselves, slowly, deliberately, stubbornly. They know what they’re doing. They know it’s not good for them. They know the consequences are coming. But they do …
Nobody talks about the kind of failure that stains. The kind that makes you question who you even are. Not the cute, inspirational kind—the kind that knocks the air out of your lungs. The kind that makes you hesitate where you once ran freely. The kind that tastes like regret long after everyone else has …
The easiest person to lie to is yourself. It doesn’t take effort. No rehearsed story. No well-crafted excuse. Just a small shift in perspective, a tiny bending of the truth, and suddenly, you believe what you need to believe. We do it all the time. We tell ourselves we’re fine when we’re breaking. We convince …
Nobody really talks about how faith can feel like walking a tightrope. How sometimes, it’s not this unshakable thing but a delicate, trembling step forward, hoping the next one doesn’t send you crashing down. How some days, you just know—things will work out, you’re on the right path, life has meaning. And other days, doubt …
People admire the strong one. They lean on them, seek their wisdom, and trust them to hold everything together. But no one ever asks who the strong one turns to when they are the ones unraveling. The strong one is the person who never falls apart in front of others. They give without expecting much …
There’s a strange kind of panic that rises when you realize you don’t know something you should know. You’re in a conversation, and someone says something unfamiliar. Your mind races. Do I ask? Do I nod? You choose the nod, hoping they don’t notice the confusion flashing in your eyes. You’re in a new place, …
You tell yourself, tomorrow will be different. You mean it, too. You’ve thought it through. Mapped it out in your head. The things you need to do. The things you want to do. You can see yourself doing them. You know exactly how it should go. But then tomorrow comes, and somehow—without you even noticing—you’re …
This year isn’t about doing more or fixing everything. It’s about becoming. Becoming isn’t something you can rush. Think of a seed quietly growing into a tree, or a river slowly shaping its path. You don’t see it happening, but it is. Little by little, you’re changing. What if this year, we stopped focusing on …
This year has felt like a long, winding road. For many, it’s been brutal—stretching hearts thin, testing limits, leaving some of us feeling like we’re holding the world together with trembling hands. Yet, here we are. Still standing. As we step into another chapter, I can’t help but think about the stories we carry—those we’ve …