Imagine you’re at a party, and someone asks, “So, what’s your story?” It’s one of those open-ended questions that can make you pause for a moment. Most of us stumble, defaulting to a job title, a hometown, or a brief summary of life events. But here’s the thing: your story is more than just a …
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Offense is more than just a fleeting emotion; it’s a deeply personal experience that can shake you to your core. It’s that moment when someone’s words or actions slice through your defenses, leaving you exposed and vulnerable. We often dismiss it as a mere reaction, something to be shrugged off, but the truth is, offense …
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Have you ever noticed how a small inconvenience can set off a cascade of negative emotions, leading you to lash out at those around you? This week, let’s explore the depths of these emotional responses and how they can impact our relationships, even when we don’t mean to cause harm. The Trigger: A Common Scenario …
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Grief is a universal experience, yet it is uniquely personal. It is an emotional storm that strikes with little warning, leaving us vulnerable and exposed. The weight of loss can be paralyzing, a heavy fog that lingers long after the initial shock has worn off. But what if we could navigate these treacherous waters with …
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Leadership fatigue. It’s a phrase that many leaders know all too well but rarely talk about. Being a leader often looks like a gift from the outside—a role of prestige, influence, and respect. But the reality? It’s a delicate dance of responsibilities, pressures, and expectations that can weigh heavily on those who bear the title. …
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Anger can feel all-consuming. It can take root so deep inside you that it feels like it’s a part of who you are. For some, anger isn’t just a fleeting emotion but a constant companion, influencing thoughts, actions, and even relationships. If you have anger issues, you know how it feels to be constantly on …
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Life often at times feels like a heavy burden, especially after going through rough and tough situations beyond our control. That trauma can make us feel tired, not just in our bodies, but in our hearts and minds too. This blog is for anyone feeling this heaviness, to help you feel seen, and to offer …
Dear Reader, This week, I want to talk about something that hits close to home and resonates deeply with the spirit of anyone yearning for change. In the heart of Kenya, a movement is growing, fueled by the courage and determination of our youth. They are not just standing up for themselves; they are standing …
It can be hard to accept every part of ourselves, especially those parts that come from pain, hurt, and damage. Our current self often tries to protect, heal, and defend our inner child, the part of us that experienced pain and trauma. But sometimes we fail to see that it might be our turn to …
Accepting every aspect of ourselves is one of the most challenging journeys we can undertake. It’s especially hard to accept the parts of us that lead and act from a place of pain, hurt, and damage. These automatic reflexes, born from trauma, become so ingrained in us that they feel like an inseparable part of …
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