We all have a mirror. Maybe it’s the one hanging on your bathroom wall, or the one you check before stepping out. But it’s not really about that mirror, is it? It’s about the mirror we carry inside—the one that reflects back a voice, a whisper, a truth, or a lie. “Mirror, mirror on the …
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Sometimes, it feels like everyone around you has a role for you to play—a mask they hand over for you to wear. Maybe it’s the friend who always lends a listening ear, the reliable one who never breaks, or the quiet shadow that stays unnoticed in a crowded room. But here’s the thing no one …
We’ve talked about how trauma can be that quiet voice in our lives, shaping who we are in ways we don’t always see. But what happens when you realize that voice isn’t truly yours? How do you find the strength to speak in your own voice, to live your own truth, when trauma has had …
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When we think about trauma, we often picture something loud and overwhelming—a force that crashes into our lives and leaves us struggling to pick up the pieces. But what if trauma isn’t always so loud? What if it’s also a quiet voice that whispers in the background, shaping how we see ourselves and the world …
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Have you ever noticed how a small inconvenience can set off a cascade of negative emotions, leading you to lash out at those around you? This week, let’s explore the depths of these emotional responses and how they can impact our relationships, even when we don’t mean to cause harm. The Trigger: A Common Scenario …
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Grief is a universal experience, yet it is uniquely personal. It is an emotional storm that strikes with little warning, leaving us vulnerable and exposed. The weight of loss can be paralyzing, a heavy fog that lingers long after the initial shock has worn off. But what if we could navigate these treacherous waters with …
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It can be hard to accept every part of ourselves, especially those parts that come from pain, hurt, and damage. Our current self often tries to protect, heal, and defend our inner child, the part of us that experienced pain and trauma. But sometimes we fail to see that it might be our turn to …
Accepting every aspect of ourselves is one of the most challenging journeys we can undertake. It’s especially hard to accept the parts of us that lead and act from a place of pain, hurt, and damage. These automatic reflexes, born from trauma, become so ingrained in us that they feel like an inseparable part of …
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Have you ever felt your heart ache from giving too much? In the quiet moments of our lives, we often find ourselves reflecting on the times we’ve been hurt. Not because we’re weak, but because we’re human. We live in a world that constantly demands our attention, energy, and love, sometimes leaving us feeling depleted …
Hey there! What a ride it’s been, right? Life’s been throwing some wild twists our way lately, and it’s easy to feel like we’re constantly playing catch-up. But amidst the chaos, there’s a powerful force we often overlook: self-compassion. Think about it. When’s the last time you truly cut yourself some slack? Showed yourself some …
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